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Second Chances !!

It all started when I saw this question in one of the forums, "Do you believe in Second Chances ?".


The author intended to say that, "Pray and use Wisdom" !


My initial reaction to it was that Just praying and using wisdom but actually doing nothing or making no efforts, will not help anyone. It will just appease your ego that u did your share by praying and hoping, but until u make an effort everything is futile !


We always crib that our relation ended 'coz "neither he made any attempts nor I" or "yeah he called me, but I was angry I didn't attend and he never called again" or " I have issues in my house, we cant be together"etc etc.
I think there are more reasons as to why one did not made an attempt to talk !!


If effort was everything to be called for, then a call or a ping or even a glimpse would had ended the fight.


I believe relationships break not 'coz both of them had a fight and no one made effort or taht other did not realize the effort. It breaks 'coz one of them wanted it to be broken.


There are no second chances, no prayers answered or waiting hopes, but just a willful decision, I QUIT. !

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Unknown said…
I agree with your belief that second chance in a relationship is decided by sincerity and genuineness of that relation. Infact, the very stability of any relationship is governed by how much we care about the corresponding person. Are we willing to make tiny compromises or forgive each other’s mistakes? Can we rise beyond our own beliefs and egos? Lack of effort or trust on either person’s side generally leads to bitter ending of relationships. My only worry is : what happens to the sincere person in that scenario ? How should He/She feel about it ? Dammit….atleast his/her feelings were true in that relationship! isn’t he/she gonna be crushed ? Is it going to be easy to forget everything and just say QUIT ??? Of course, its probably good for his/her future in the end ( because the corresponding person will not give the appropriate love/respect to him/her anyway.). But……as someone said….there are certain matters which are driven by heart, not by mind ! Can we control our thoughts and not feel disappointed about it ?
November 3, 2009 at 2:56 AM
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