Decision and Destiny !
There are 2 types of people in the world - impulsive and non-impulsive.
Impulsive are the ones whose decisions are emotionally driven or rather they have an involuntary impulse to do something. More like a child, they decide in haste.
Non - impulsive are said to have control on their mind and feelings, their decisions are taken after a thorough thought process and there is always a rational reason behind why the road was not taken and why another was taken.
Now, what prompted me to think about "decisions", well it was my attempt to categorize myself in one.
I always thought that I'm impulsive, I make decisions in minutes, I don't really follow a particular thought process and I don't really care for outcome. But does that really makes me impulsive ??
I think decision making is more than what meet the eyes. Your decision is based more upon "circumstances" when you decide.
I might decide something in office when I'm fighting with my manager but when I sit alone, I know that is not my ultimate decision. But while I'm fighting I'm impulsive enough to reply him and that ki main uski band bajaun :D
Impulsive are the ones whose decisions are emotionally driven or rather they have an involuntary impulse to do something. More like a child, they decide in haste.
Non - impulsive are said to have control on their mind and feelings, their decisions are taken after a thorough thought process and there is always a rational reason behind why the road was not taken and why another was taken.
Now, what prompted me to think about "decisions", well it was my attempt to categorize myself in one.
I always thought that I'm impulsive, I make decisions in minutes, I don't really follow a particular thought process and I don't really care for outcome. But does that really makes me impulsive ??
I think decision making is more than what meet the eyes. Your decision is based more upon "circumstances" when you decide.
I might decide something in office when I'm fighting with my manager but when I sit alone, I know that is not my ultimate decision. But while I'm fighting I'm impulsive enough to reply him and that ki main uski band bajaun :D
Jokes apart, what I'm noticing now is that now I really care for my decision and what repercussion my actions might bring. So that makes me a non-impulsive freak. I always abhorred the idea of not taking own decision but now when I'm are not the one steering it has changed a lot of perspective. I'm enjoying sailing with the waves, letting a natural flow of events and reacting as and when destiny is unfolding its cards.
Reminds me - There was a time when we were young, restless and fearless, now we just act our age !! It now demands me to sit back and relish what it's offering.
Now, even if I decide [impulsively or non-impulsively] to let destiny play it's role, I know that it's ultimately my decision to let destiny play or was it destiny's decision that I will let it take charge ???
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